彪悍的人生不需要解释

  不知究竟是我的性格太强悍,还是这世界越来越矫情。

  安慰某失恋女子,伊失恋快一年还在如祥林嫂般四处对朋友哭诉,无论聊什么话题都能在五句之内转回到那个男人身上。可笑的是,我安慰她,她居然对我说:“我又不是你。”语气中颇有些鄙夷的意味,仿佛我失恋以后从不抱怨又很快振作,是因为我薄情寡意。

  只能说是世道变了。除了笑一笑然后走开之外,再没有多余的话能对她说。只能坦诚地告诉自己,不是和所有人都有做朋友的缘分。

  有些话,是没办法三两句就能说明的。其实我只是不想打扰任何人,不想给任何人包袱,不想三天两头对朋友哭诉,造成所有人的负担,更不想把伤口展示给不相干的人欣赏。除了好好生活之外,还想不出还有什么别的办法让父母与朋友觉得欣慰。如果活完人生的三分之一时间,你还认为某人不爱你就是至大的痛苦,我想我我只能恭喜你,能够如此不识人间烟火的长大。可惜我不能,所以只好毫不犹豫地选择坚强。

  早说过了,欲伤我者,请量力而行。那些企图看我笑话的人,真抱歉,只能让你们失望了。从小我就希望自己是强悍而坚韧的女子,而我知道我一定可以做得到。

  所幸还是有很多人爱我的,而爱我的人都对我极好,我很满足。至于我不爱的,永远都别想伤我分毫。

  又及,闺密(这个词缩写自闺中密友,小JoJo一看到有人把它写成闺蜜就觉得浑身难受)们对我的态度都十分强硬。某女人问我:“你喜欢的那个香水到底是哪一款啊?”我说:“别给我买了,买给我就是浪费,你知道我都舍不得用。”她说:“哦,没关系,那我自己挑别的给你。”基本完全无视我说的话。我说:“亲爱的对我真好。”她理所当然地回答说:“嗯,那是应该的。”小JoJo当场感动得痛哭流涕的说。又有某女人,更夸张,居然对我说:“我管你那么多,反正你不回国我就不摆酒。我结婚要是你不在,那也太不像样了。”我坐在电脑前面严重擦汗。看来年中回国是势在必行,否则小JoJo有极大可能会被某中国籍男子大卸八块。

  有时候不知道自己是何德何能。我想,我上辈子一定积了很多德。嘿嘿。

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