如果一个女子,失恋半年,还能自梦中哭醒,这是否意味着伤已入骨?
而我只能怅惘地拍拍她的背,然后转过身自己也哭了起来。
一直以来我都认为,每个先转身离开的人都应理礼貌性地维持缄默。可惜大部分人都要将那一句话就可说完的事情啰啰嗦嗦地列出几百条理由和原因,无非是要掩盖已经变心的事实。非要将自己的变心说成是由于对方的不是,可知那会造成多大的伤害?
其实,一句“我已经不爱你了”就够了。足以解释所有的一切。
所以,所有不爱了的人们,请用这唯一的一句来结束关系吧。请不要说任何用“你”字开头的话语,那些话语带来的伤害,往往是深刻而沉重的。让人长久不能忘怀,长久不能拾回自信。每个先转身的人都已拥有了无上的主动权,为什么还非要在打了对方一个耳光之后又踩上一脚呢?难道不觉得残忍么。
我说,我简直是遭受了毁灭性地打击。她说,我也是。
我说,我数次想死了算了。她说,嗯,可是后来想一想,人生还是美好的。
我说,如果他只对我说他不爱我了,我想我可以平静地接受这一切,可惜他偏要将这一切地错误推到我的身上。也许那些都是真的,但那打击实非常人可以承受。其实,其实我已经不爱他了,但还是常常悲哀到难以自禁。她说,为什么我们的感觉会这么像。
然后我们长久地沉默。
然后在第二天清晨六点半,她自梦中哭醒。我怅惘地拍拍她的背,转过身自己也哭了起来。
二十三岁生日,我听见的第一个声音,是自梦中冲出的一声抽泣。我收到的第一份感觉,是自灵魂深深处迸出的一缕悲哀。就算经年以后,再回忆起他说过的每句话,都会依然觉得心碎。
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